For all the attention it gets, the marriage of alcohol and sex comes down to two things.  One alcohol lowers anxiety and inhibitions, which can help you score.  The second is that it depresses the central nervous system, which can prevent erections.  So, what is the answer?

The best approach is to drink moderately so that you can enjoy yourself.  Or, you could separate sex from alcohol completely so that you don’t have the distraction of either one. You can drown anxiety with some booze, but you will have a better time if you create a situation where there’s not sexual anxiety that needs to be drown.

Yep, alcohol sabotages erections and screws up the skills you use for great sex.  When you drink you sacrifice control of your body.  Your ability to communicate suffers as well.  And, your sensitivity to your partner’s needs is shot to hell.  Plus, you now smell funny dude!

I am not suggesting you swear off alcohol just put it in its place.  You might be better off drinking with the boys and concentrating on doing your thing with the ladies.